I donโt know who I am anymore or what I want to do
Aug 13, 2024
Have you ever found yourself in a super weird spot in your life where you’re not sure who you are and what you want to do?!?What if I told you this is natural and completely normal? I had some of these existential moments when I turned 50 and completely got turned around in my direction, focus and plan. I had to take time off, step back and recalibrate myself to a new, expanded direction that was in touch with my WHY. So let’s start there. When your WHY is off-based, it causes you to feel unclear about your path, motivation or actions.Your WHY is like fuel for your car. When you fill up with gas and your intention is to travel to a certain destination, that’s a clearly outlined outcome and you usually get there. However, when you fill up with gas and your intention is to “see where you end up” - you may find that you waste a lot of time traveling because you’re not sure where you want to reach. Life, business, relationships, health, wealth and spirituality is a lot like that. Your WHY fuels way more than work. It fuels your EVERYTHING.I want to share this with you because I just got back from taking three weeks off. I needed it. It’s part of my WHY. I work hard and put in the hours, saving my money and investing wisely because I have designed my life and work so that I give myself space, time and freedom to grow. My WHY is tied to multiple things and RIGHT NOW…it’s motivated by growing and investing money so that I can live in freedom, luxury and comfort in my later years. My WHY is tied to the legacy I leave behind and the impact I make in people’s lives long after I’m gone. My WHY is tied to living creatively, experiencing fun and great moments with loved ones and living a life outside of the ‘box.’ My WHY is fulfilling my Assignment that was bestowed to me by the Record Keepers in 2016. My WHY crystallized for me because I lost sight of who I was and what I wanted, and I knew that I needed to take some time to figure it out. That’s the invitation I am offering to you today. Give yourself the gift to figure it out because YOU are in charge of your choices and YOU get to define who you desire to be. For some of you, taking the time to pause feels like a glorious answer to all the questions rolling around in your head. For others, you can’t even fathom taking time off because you’re so strapped and wrapped up in just trying to make it. The invitation to pause is what’s in front of you. Whether you take ONE day, ONE week or ONE YEAR to figure it out…take what you need. Life will not wait for you to figure it out. Time will not stop for you to be ready. Money will not flow more just because you push yourself harder to your breaking point. “I don’t know what I want” is the best invitation for you to figure out what it is that you do want. But what if you’re stuck? What if you’re at a major crossroads and you don’t know which way to go? What if you’re afraid to make a mistake? Don’t worry, friend…I got you. You’re in my world now, and there are so many ways that I can support you. Let’s start with these easy three options: 1. Help me figure it out session
2. Hold my hand to get me out of the woods and where I want to be
3. Make it magically disappear and rewire my reality
You may be finding yourself in the season of a pivot. Pivots are good. They are an opportunity for you to switch things up, try something new or revisit an idea that you can’t let go of. The important thing to know is that you’re not alone and that you are living a grand design of your own making. So take a moment this summer to ask yourself this critical question: Who am I NOW and what do I want to experience in my glorious gift of life? When you get the answer, share it with me! I’m collecting stories of people who are kicking ass in their lives…even if it’s a small win. Big or small, you’ve got to know that you’re on the right track. After all, there’s no other track you could be on! Hit me up for support or help! Now that I’m back and recalibrated, I want to be the rocket fuel in your ship! Or gas in your car. Or a hand that you hold when you feel lost. That’s what an Akashic Records Guide is for! Bless up,โ |
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